lectures
effects of feminism and liberalism
Ustadh Zulfiqar delivers a powerful lecture unpacking the effects of liberalism and feminism in the 21st century, examining how these ideologies have harmed both individuals and society. Particularly the developing minds of the youth. He emphasizes the timeless value of the nuclear family, the irreplaceable role of the father, and the deep wisdom behind the hijab. Not merely as a piece of cloth, but as a natural form of protection rooted in both revelation and nature. Drawing striking parallels from the animal kingdom, where beetles shield their females and gorillas assert dominance to protect their group, he highlights how even human behaviours, like public displays of affection or wearing a wedding ring, serve as instinctive forms of modesty and boundaries. The lecture reframes hijab as a divine safeguard that nurtures dignity, identity, and stability in a world increasingly detached from its fitrah (natural disposition).
TAKE AWAY NOTES:
1. Liberalism and the Sacrifice of Connection
Maximizing freedom can lead to disconnection
Liberalism, at its core, seeks to maximize individual freedom and autonomy. But Ustadh Zulfiqar explains that relationships, whether with our family, community, or with Allah, require commitment, responsibility, and sacrifice.
When society is built around personal gratification and avoidance of discomfort, it leads to people avoiding the very duties that bring long-term fulfillment. Liberalism’s focus on “me” over “we” and gradually breaks down the fabric of relationships that require you to think beyond yourself.
2. The Paradox of Choice and Modern Anxiety
More choices can lead to less fulfilment
In today’s world, we are overwhelmed with choices. From careers, partners, and lifestyles to belief systems. While this seems empowering, Ustadh Zulfiqar highlights how this actually causes anxiety, doubt, and dissatisfaction. When you can always “choose again,” you never fully commit. This leads to a restless heart.
Islam simplifies life by giving clear guidance and boundaries, which brings peace, not paralysis. Too much freedom often leads to confusion, not clarity.
3. Feminism and the Reality of Relationships
Despite advances in rights, Cultural norms lead to challenges and heartbreak.
Ustadh Zulfiqar acknowledges the good feminism has done in terms of rights and protection, but he also challenges its unintended consequences. Women are told they can have it all. Career, independence, relationships... but are often left emotionally drained. The lecture highlights the increasing rates of depression and heartbreak despite “empowerment.” The casualization of relationships and normalization of heartbreak have led many women to feel used rather than fulfilled. Islam offers a model where value isn’t dependent on being desired but on being honored.
4. Hijab and Its Universal Significance
The hijab is a form of empowerment.
Rather than being a tool of oppression, the hijab is framed as a natural, dignified shield. Something not unique to Islam but present in various civilizations and even mirrored in nature.
Ustadh Zulfiqar gives examples from the animal kingdom: female creatures protect their modesty and are naturally guarded, and males often defend them. The hijab grants a woman control over how and to whom she presents herself. It also serves to limit temptation, preserve marriages, and reduce societal chaos, ultimately guarding both men and women.
5. The Importance of Meaning and Purpose
Meaning and purpose are essential for well-being
Today’s world emphasizes productivity and image but forgets why we do what we do. Without a higher purpose, people eventually collapse under the weight of existential emptiness.
Ustadh Zulfiqar stresses that humans were created with a purpose: to worship and know their Creator. A life without direction becomes vulnerable to depression, addiction, and destructive behavior.
Islam provides that compass, reminding us we are not random beings, but purposeful creations of Allah.
6. Understanding and Compassion in Dawah
Compassion and good character IS crucial
Dawah (inviting others to Islam) isn’t just about logic and debate.
It’s about hearts. The Prophet ï·º won people over with his mercy, patience, and character. Ustadh Zulfiqar reminds us that if someone is struggling with sin or disbelief, it may not be due to ignorance. It could be due to trauma, pain, or a broken heart.
When we show understanding and patience, we become a reflection of prophetic mercy. Dawah is not just about delivering a message, but also embodying it.
7. The Spiritual Dimension of Belief and Atheism
Atheism often stems from emotional or spiritual struggles.
Ustadh Zulfiqar argues that many people who reject God do so not because of reason, but because of emotional pain or disappointment with religion. They’ve lost their connection to their fitrah (natural disposition toward belief). Rather than debating atheists aggressively, we should ask: What hurt you? What caused you to turn away? Islam teaches that belief is already inside the soul.
It just needs to be uncovered through healing and reflection.
